If you knew your boyfriend had hidden needs, would you want to help with those needs?
It's not always an easy task! Consequently, many singles are enlisting the help of professional cupids whose business is bringing together compatible couples. Today's matchmakers work hard for their money—and they demand a lot of it. Prices for these pros run steep, and only a select few singles are affluent enough to afford the service.
When you find someone who complements the whole you, you may be able to build the relationship of your dreams with that person. Have you ever felt a little down, taken a few minutes to practice gratitude for what you have and what you appreciate about yourself, and felt better almost immediately?
What's an invisible boyfriend?
Happiness comes from the inside, not a new pair of deer shoes or a boyfriend. Everything you need to be happy in life is already inside of you. What if you were in a serious relationship with a guy who, for whatever reason, could not pick up and move to another state or country, and you got the chance of a lifetime that would help you reach your goals, live your dreams, and really feel like you were fulfilling your destiny?
As amazing as that opportunity sounds, you might still feel guilty for not taking it to stay with your boyfriend and what if you broke up soon after the opportunity had passed? One day you will have a boyfriend, and these opportunities to find out more about yourself will help you know which boyfriend is right for you.
In fact, you may even influence him. This is especially important during times of transition, like after high school or college when you and your friends are all going your separate ways—going to new schools or taking new jobs in other cities or states.
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Focus on yourself first. Finally someone said it! I am happily single myself.
Love your blogs and the Beauty Detox program. Great article! Have plenty of friends who need to hear this as I am one of the few who is choosing to focus on herself and life purpose.
Happiest I have ever been! This article got me thinking critically.
I have been surprised a few times, for the simple fact that you live in LA- an urban center where there are so many not-so-straight couplesand that you have consistently used hetero-normative language, and not something more welcoming to all sexual preferences.
I think there may be more queer women that read your blog more than you may think!
1. he needs her to be his no. 1 fan (encouragement)
Thank you! I needed this.
Its hopeful to hear someone else give this advice and have this point of view. I just hope I can take it and start making myself happy! Thank you so much for writing this, it came at a very crucial time in my life, such excellent reminders!!! Truly boosted my spirits and helped me get my mind right!!
I had just told myself that I needed to get a boyfriend. This article reminded me I should continue to live life to the fullest and look forward to the future with great expectation.
This is an excellent article. I love men, but there is something special about accomplishing goals and pursuing new interests without one. I have been single for years and I have struggled only because society feels uncomfortable with me being happy in this state……I will if I ever meet the right guy happily pursue a relationship until then I relish the freedom and joy my single life affords me.
How does it work?
My bf of nearly 6 yrs broke up with me 4 wks ago. Thank you Kimberly! Charlotte on March 19, at pm.
Katie on March 19, at pm. Namaste Kimberly, This article got me thinking critically.
Alison on March 19, at pm. Shirley on March 20, at am. Lovely article. Thoroughly enjoyed it Reply. Andrea on March 20, at am.
2. he needs fun companionship (adventure)
Dafne on March 20, at pm. Susan Scott on March 21, at pm.
I have been single for years and I have struggled only because society feels uncomfortable with me being happy in this state……I will if I ever meet the right guy happily pursue a relationship until then I relish the freedom and joy my single life affords me Reply.
Liz on March 22, at am. I had the same thoughts as Durga. Sam on March 22, at pm.